What do you think is going on in THEM?
1. The story they might tell themselves? (only a story!)
Please know that your ‘story’ and your partners ‘story’ makes sense - based on personality and background - but each ‘story’ is usually inaccurate.
What they usually do in an argument (their reaction)
2.How might they be FEELING inside … (use list)
(hard AND softer feelings eg fragile)
3. What might they be NEEDING?