In just 3-6 sessions together we can:
It would be that all couples knew earlier on their fundamental personality patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving – and that most of their relationship challenges are predictable and preventable. My clients frequently tell me that they are devastated they didn’t know this information earlier in their relationship. It is heartbreaking. The suffering in a deteriorating relationship can create immense pain- we get attached to a primary person for them to be our safe place, and when they become the person we perceive as harming us – that is a very painful paradox that can create attachment trauma. I believe our worst behaviours come out when this is what we are experiencing. And all conflict is about poorly expressed needs. Couples come to understand their triggers and learn how they can heal, and how they could have predicted and prevented hurting one another.
In doing these sessions, couples came to realise that they’ve misinterpreted & jumped to wrong conclusions about their partner’s thinking, intentions and behaviour all along, creating unintentional and unnecessary pain. Now, however, they are being agents of healing and care for one another & can finally embrace the potential that was always there between them. And they can find the higher purpose to their unique union.
It is the greatest privilege in my life to witness couples reconnecting, leaving holding hands, understanding each other anew, attuned to one another’s needs again, & with a greater depth of intimacy (In To Me See) and sense of commitment to be each other’s person.
Tracy Baker-Lawrence is a leading Australian personality expert and relationship psychologist. She facilitates couple sessions, individual insight sessions, workshops, retreats, webinars, live interview panels, and presents at International conferences on personality.
Tracy has practiced for over two decades helping people resolve their frustrations and misunderstandings in their primary relationships with compassion – to enhance their connection for life. While she has always espoused values of compassion, authenticity, ownership and integrity in her relationship work, it was only when Tracy discovered an incisive, comprehensive self awareness tool years ago, that she knew she had found the key to enabling couples to truly know each other’s inner worlds and experience lasting relationship growth & transformation.
Since then, Tracy has trained extensively in this tool and has become recognised for using a ‘gold standard’ clinical interview method – to accurately identify people’s personality patterns. Her skills have been honed through thousands of hours, conducting over 3000 clinical personality interviews, to observe and codify peoples body language, verbal responses, intonations, and motivations.
Based upon her clinical knowledge, neuroscience and the best research on thriving relationships, Tracy developed a unique therapeutic ‘ATTUNED’ relationship methodology……
This methodology incorporates your Couple D.N.A.™ and the B.O.T.H. model™. Every couple has their own unique Dynamics – based upon each partner’s Neurobiology (hardwiring & personality) and where each partner’s Attention in life goes. Uncovering how these factors interact, alongside shared knowledge of their life experiences, conditioning, wounds and needs, we can empower couples with the insights they need to protect their love from the start, or finally resolve their particular recurring Infinity Trap. Working with the ‘why’ – the root cause of relationship pain, partners come to accurately understand and fully appreciate each other and their differences, and importantly to grow and heal as individuals and as a couple. Unlike any other relationship enhancement work, which tends to be generic, this method is uniquely tailored to the nature of each partner. The method is based on the 4 principles of effective early intervention: it is personalised, predictive, preventative and prescriptive.
Tracy founded The insight Agency to use this transformative methodology. She is on a mission to help couples quickly and easily gain insight, understanding and empathy for themselves and each other and find the deep love and connection they’ve always longed for. When they truly understand their own inner world and their partner’s ….. everything changes.
The insight Agency is a ‘Business For Good’ which means that for every insight session a child in need is fed or receives much needed counselling.
want to see in the world.The insight Agency is passionate about enhancing your relationship and is very grateful for your contribution in creating more health & well-being in the world.
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