Discover Your Couple D.N.A^TM

Transform your Relationship

Are you here because …

you’re frustrated and feeling disconnected?
you’re thinking your partner doesn’t understand how important certain things are to you, or doesn’t seem to care or hear you, responding with blame & defensiveness?
you have repeating unhelpful patterns that you’ve tried to break, each of you trying be heard and understood, but nothing has worked?

In just 3 sessions together we can …

Discover your unique Couple D.N.A – the science-based missing piece from most relationship work – and the 10 predictable differences between you and your partner that need to be understood and honoured. The differences are NOT the problem; they are part of the attraction, and are what you actually need in order to to heal and grow.
Know the unconscious dynamics at play in your relationship (we can’t change what we don’t know)
Understand accurately both yours & your partner’s motivations, intentions and needs, to compassionately understand past triggers and hurts (that have often been misunderstood)
Work out why the strategies you’ve been using haven’t worked, and co-create new strategies to meet both sets of needs
Learn to communicate what really matters, in a way that your partner can truly understand and feel motivated to support you
And finally, know how to bring out the best in each other, like you each did at the beginning, to grow and futureproof your relationship

If I had one wish, it would be that all couples knew earlier on their fundamental personality patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving – & that most of their problems are predictable and preventable. My clients frequently tell me that they are devastated they didn’t know this information earlier in their relationship. It is heartbreaking. They realise they could have predicted their relationship challenges if they had known their 2 personalities and how they uniquely intersect.

In doing these sessions, they come to realise that they’ve misinterpreted their partner’s thinking and behaviour all along, creating unnecessary pain. Now they can finally embrace the potential that was always there between them, where they can be each other’s greatest support and ultimate source of healing.

What if every couple knew their Couple D.N.A^TM?
(Dynamics . Neurobiology . Attention)

There would be fewer misinterpretations, less blaming and judging

&
more understanding, appreciation & connection

About Tracy Baker-Lawrence

Tracy Baker-Lawrence is a leading Australian personality expert and relationship psychologist. She facilitates couple sessions, individual insight sessions, workshops, retreats, live interview panels, and presents at International conferences on personality.

Tracy has practiced for 20 years helping people resolve their frustrations and misunderstandings in their primary relationships with compassion – to enhance their connection for life. While she has always espoused the values of compassion, authenticity, ownership and integrity in her relationship work, it was only when Tracy discovered an incisive relationship enhancement tool 15 years ago, that she knew she had found the key to enabling couples to truly know each other’s inner worlds and experience lasting relationship growth & transformation.

Since then, Tracy has trained extensively in this tool and has become recognised for using a ‘gold standard’ clinical interview method – to accurately identify people’s personality patterns. Her skills have been honed through thousands of hours, conducting over 2000 interviews, to observe and codify peoples body language, verbal responses, intonations, and motivations.

Based upon her clinical knowledge, neuroscience and the best research on thriving relationships, Tracy developed her own unique therapeutic relationship methodology.

About the ATTUNED methodology

This methodology incorporates your Couple D.N.A.™ and the B.O.T.H. model™. Every couple has their own unique Dynamic – based upon each partner’s Neurobiology (hardwiring) and where each partner’s Attention in life goes. Uncovering how each of these elements intersect is paramount to empowering couples with the insights they need to finally resolve their particular recurring challenges. Partners come to accurately understand and fully appreciate each other and their differences, and importantly to grow as individuals and as a couple. Unlike any other relationship enhancement work, which tends to be generic, this method is uniquely tailored to the nature of each partner.

Tracy founded The insight Agency to use this transformative methodology. She is on a mission to help couples quickly and easily gain insight, understanding and empathy for themselves and each other and find the deep love and connection they’ve always longed for. When they truly understand their own inner world and their partner’s … everything changes.

What if every time we meet

something good

happens in the world?

The insight Agency is a ‘Business For Good’ which means that for every insight session a child in need is fed or receives much needed counselling.

I believe in the power of heart, hope and action in creating a more compassionate world. And I believe it is up to us to create the change we

want to see in the world.

The insight Agency has partnered with B1G1 (Business for Good) and in aligning with the United Nations Sustainable Goals, hopes to inspire others to be a force for positive impact also.

The insight Agency is passionate about enhancing your relationship and is very grateful for your contribution in creating more health & well-being in the world.

"Tracy has helped us immensely as a couple. We have been married for a long time and although proactive in working on our relationship, we have been stuck in some very entrenched relationship patterns that were causing us a lot of pain and conflict. Tracy has been such a gift to us in helping us to identify our individual innate patterns of behaviour, and then in such a wonderfully balanced way, helped us both to understand each other's motivations and responses. Tracy has so skilfully and compassionately facilitated the process that has moved us to a place of new understanding of our own needs and how we can move forward in understanding and love for each other."

"My husband and I separated last year and with Tracy’s valuable insight Into our couple dynamic she helped us to understand what was happening beneath the behaviour and the hurt. I have an understanding of our relationship that I never had before and it has helped me to be more empathetic and understanding of where our relationship rubbed. Without Tracy I know we would not have been able to be amicable after a year, and we are now co parenting our 8 year old successfully. I would not enter into a relationship now without seeing Tracy first. She is compassionate and her knowledge is world class."